Ralph

Argument started from misunderstanding.

Distance was harbored by indifference.

Now, I guess, the obedience and the flight after the obedience is the product of lacking understanding and communication.
Parents don't actually know their kids' strength; kids don't know parents' preference; we don't know how to express ourselves no matter how talkative we are with our colleagues and classmates.

Where is the solution? How can we help parents to get to know their kids at school and other places other than home, without creating the fear or anger of being monitored?